Some people do, some people don’t. So when it comes to putting your photo online, should you go naked or not? On an adult dating site, people tend to be just looking for one thing… But are you helping get what you want with a naked photo? The answer is yes… and no.
There’s more psychology involved in this than you would think. It comes down, as many things do, to the difference between guys and gals. It also comes down to the individual and how “out there” they are with their sexuality.
For guys, who are much more visually stimulated, a naked image girl is a pretty quick way to get him turned on. So as a rule, a naked photo of a girl is going to get you more attention. No argument there.
But there’s another way to look at it. Think of it like Christmas. If you know exactly what you’re gonna get for Christmas, are you going to get the same excitement when you finally unwrap your goodies?! Men enjoy the thrill of the chase and the build up. So if girls don’t want to put it all out there immediately, a suggestive shot, even a mild cleavage shot can turn a guy on while keeping the thrill of the chase intact.
For girls, there is a pretty clear split in what they find attractive in a guy. Let’s face it, God didn’t make male genitalia with beauty in mind!! So just a photo of male genitalia won’t turn on a good proportion of women on and can actively turn off a lot of women.
When you ask women what first attracts them to a guy, you’ll get a huge range of answers. For some it’s a nice smile, for others still it could be kind eyes or a smart suit, and yes for some it could be a big c*ck. Maybe you’re lucky and you have a nice smile, kind eyes, a smart suit AND a big c*ck! The point is, if all a girl has to go on is male genitalia, you’re not necessarily putting your best foot (or other appendage) forward.
